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De Stress The Mess - Starting Your Day






I have found that how you start your day many times will determine how the rest of  your day will go. It took me awhile to establish what I wanted to do to start the day in a positive way.

When my four daughters were very young I found that the only time I had to myself was the early morning. I began to crave those couple of hours during the day before they rose to just be quite with my cup of tea or coffee and reflect abo9ut ...life.  Overtime I began to add journaling. I would write about what happened  the day before, talk about my frustrations and sometimes anger about what was going on with raising 4 very young children. I would write about my husband , my career that was on hold, how tired I was, how insecure I felt about my abilities as a mom...anything that came to mind.  After a few months of getting up early in the morning and spending those hours basically venting I decided I need to at least prepare myself for a positive day by actually DOING something positive to start my day.

As it turns out the Creator led me to a wonderful group of ladies who met every morning at 5:00am to pray for each other and their loved ones. It was such a positive way to start the day. Afterwards I would feel so positive and energized that I decided to add movement to my early morning routine.  Sometimes it would be an early morning brisk walk, eventually I added Yoga.  A few years later I added meditation; always choosing a scripture or affirmation on which to meditate.

Over the years as the girls grew up they begin to move out, go away to school and get their own places. What an adjustment that was for me. My main reason to look forward to the quite mornings had gone. But what stayed was my need to be quiet, connect with God and to honor my body with some kind of movement. Since I now had spare bedrooms I also realized that I could turn one of these rooms into a prayer room...and so I did.  

For the last six years I have had a prayer room. What a blessing and wonderful way to start the day! On the prayer line with phenomenal women (it has been 15 years now since I have been on a prayer line of women)surrounded with positive images, books, memorabilia and pictures that are significant to me. Every time I walk into my prayer room I am revitalized and reminded at how good life is!

 An example of a prayer room


Truly starting my day in this way makes a huge difference. I can always tell when I don't.  Here is my early morning regime

  • Drink of  water and lemon or lime - at least 8 ounces before my feet hit the floor (gets the metabolism going) 
  • Prayer and Meditation for about 30 minutes
  • Yoga for 10 minutes (sun salutation) 
  • Gratitude Journaling for 10 minutes 
  • Tasks for the day 
Now I know my start of the day may seem complicated but it took me quite some time to work up to this pattern. It takes time, be patient with yourself and don't get frustrated. If you can just spend 15 minutes a day with yourself in silence, prayer and meditation that is a start.  The rest will come when you are ready.  Ease into making the start of your day the best part of your day!
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    Conquering Temptation





    Our Guest Blogger -  Deanna Heiliger is a teacher and an inspirational writer and speaker. She is happily married, raising four sweet daughters. For encouragement with and support in becoming a "Better You” visit her weekly blog: www.metothepowerofwe.com and visit her fan page on Facebook for a daily dose of positive goodness: www.facebook.com/metothepowerofwe


    Temptation is all around us.It corners us and tests our true character and our willpower at every turn. It can be in the innocent form of a cupcake when you are trying to eat healthy...or it can be in the form of a handsome man flirting with you when your marriage is not "up to par".



    How do you handle temptation when you are faced with it?



    True character comes to test when a situation arises and there is nobody around to see how you respond. Someone with questionable character will give in to temptation no matter what the cost. If you are a person of great character, there is still a chance that you may want to give in to temptation. How do you handle that temptation?



    I think the biggest way to handle temptation with grace is to make a commitment to yourself. If you don't have boundaries and goals set in place to hold you accountable to your values, it will be easier for you to adjust that line.



    Let's say that you are trying to be really healthy and illuminate sugar from your diet. You also know that you love a little treat after each meal and you like your desserts. This is a really lofty goal, and one that can be attainable...but it will take a lot of willpower and restraint on your part. To avoid undo temptation, it would be a great idea to notwalk by the desert aisle in the lunch buffet. Out of sight, out of mind...right?



    Dont put yourself in a situation that may compromise your goal!



    When you are trying to live within a certain set of morals and values and boundaries you must notsurround yourself with things that will temp you. If you are trying to work on your marriage, you would want to limit going out to happy hour with all your single girlfriends. If you want to be more productive during the day while your kids are at school, then don't turn on the TV. If you make small little rules and guidelines for yourself, your goals will be easier to attain without the added temptation distracting you.



    If you know certain things are a "Trigger" for you, stay away from them!



    If you do find yourself confronted by something that you are trying to avoid, that is when your willpower and true self respect come into play. If you have a personal goal that you want to achieve, then letting a fleeting quick enjoyment derail you is an easy way to feel crummy and set you back to zero.



    Ask yourself, Is it worth it?



    I know that some people have serious addictions, and that is not what I am talking about here...as those people need to seek professional help. They can use willpower and personal goal setting, but I think addictions are a much bigger situation that is harder to handle without proper guidance.

    Just as youare the only one who can control your thoughts, youare the only one who can control your actions. This is very empowering and should make you feel good. If you set your mind to it, you can achieve it.Don't let your negative thinking and your coercive self-talk convince you to give in to temptation and ultimately derail you from your goal! Stay strong to your commitmentYou will benefit greatly!

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    What's Making Me Thankful Today

    A dear friend of mine and author of "One Size Fits All, Making Healthy Choices Stepping Into A Meaningful Life" Michelle Howe wrote this day after the Boston Tragedy. I wanted to share this blog with you to encourage and inspire us all




    woman in prayer after Boston Marathon - Chicago Tribune



    What's Making Me Thankful For Today

    Of course, the topic on everyone’s mind is yesterday’s horrific bombing in Boston. I thought about it all day yesterday, went to bed thinking about it, and woke up at 2:00 am thinking about it.
    This morning, I’m still thinking about it.

    But something’s changed since yesterday. Now, I’m thinking about all the people who immediately stepped up to the challenge and began helping those around them at the scene.I started thinking about all those people who in the midst of the tragedy didn’t run for their lives. Instead, they stayed and assisted the injured. In other words, they helped.Helpers are not as rare as we might believe. They are everywhere.  And when we spot them, it makes all the difference.

    It gives us hope in an otherwise hopeless situation. It brightens our perspective that despite man’s inhumanity toward man…helpers help tip the balance right again. It makes me more courageous to jump in and do the right thing the next time I’m afraid to get involved.  It cranks up my thankful meter to the highest high.

    So today, as I’m grieving for those who were hurt and for the families who lost loved ones…I’m going to give thanks for the helpers who help us as bystanders keep going.





    Are you feeling stressed? Overwhelmed by the day to day events in your life? Your stress may not stop, but you can stop the impact that stress has on your body! Check out what we can do to help you DeStress The Mess.

    Juicing vs Blending - What is the difference when it comes to our health and wellness?

     

    The amazing Annette Larkin -Here is an interview we did with her on "The Wellness Journey!"

    What are the different health benefits of Juicing vs. Blending?

    reprint from youngandraw.com

    Why Juice?
    Juices are really amazing healing drinks.  Juices are particularly good for people who have damaged digestive systems, who have difficulty digesting vegetables, or are ill in any other way.  This is due to the fact that removing the fibre releases all of the nutrients from those plants, without your body having to do any work.
    Juices are great to have when you want to do a cleanse of your body.  This is because your body will not be putting any effort towards digestion, so all that energy can be directed to ridding the body of built up waste and toxins. Juicing allows the body to focus on healing while still providing nutrients to your body that would not be present during a water fast.  Juices are also awesome for supporting the healing of a damaged gut, and a plethora of other health issues depending on the ingredients present.


     Green Juicing

    Why Blend?
    Smoothies are awesome for those who need a quick meal on the go and do not have time to sit down and eat something.  They are great for a meal before or after a workout, because smoothies are light enough that they won’t weigh you down but they are substantial enough that you won’t feel hungry again in 15 minutes.  You can also pack them full of ingredients that will help with your recovery after a work out.
    Smoothies are also great for those who are coming off of a fast of any kind, as it will help to re-introduce your body to solid foods again in a more gradual way than jumping straight into eating would.  Smoothies will help to cleanse out your colon, because they contains the fibre that will help to “sweep” out your intestinal tract. These fibres will bind to toxins and usher them out of your system. Smoothies are also amazing for those who want to start introducing more raw foods into their diets, but don’t know how.  You can hide a number of less palatable ingredients like dark greens and superfoods under the sweet taste of fruit in a smoothie.


    Green Smoothie



    Spring Into The Stress Free Zone-De-Stress The Mess

    Have you ever had that feeling that if one more thing goes wrong in your life that you're going to scream? Ever felt like one more thing, just one more that's it and your going to just ....just, BLOW UP?

    Boy did I have that  feeling while I was raising my four daughters.  They are all close in age (I was basically pregnant for about 10 years) There were times when I thought I could literally feel my blood pressure going up. Times when I would awaken in the morning full of anxiety because of all the activities I had scheduled for the girls on that day.

    I finally learned (about 25 years later) some key things I need to do in order to minimize the impact of stress on my body.  It is a very simple recipe... Exercise + Diet + Meditation(Prayer) = "De-Stress the Mess". That's right. Its as simple as that a this month on the PraiseWorks Fan Page we are talking about tips, tools and techniques to "De-Stress the Mess".

    We are cover information about stress and the different things that can be done through holistic practices and fitness to minimize the impact that stress can have on your body. Stress can lead to stroke, cardio vascular disease, high blood pressure, obesity and yes even cancer!  Direct correlations have been tied to stress and chronic disease.  Don't be a statistic take control of your health and your life. Do not let the stress in your life threaten your life.

    We have a wonderful coaching program "De-Stress The Mess" that gives women the tips, tools and techniques they need combat the impact stress has on your body. Each program in personalized for your particular needs. If you are interested in finding out more about this great program email us at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it  

    Spring Into The Stress Free Zone 

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    Keep Everything in Perspective



     
    Our Guest Blogger -  Deanna Heiliger is a teacher and an inspirational writer and speaker. She is happily married, raising four sweet daughters. For encouragement with and support in becoming a "Better You” visit her weekly blog: www.metothepowerofwe.com and visit her fan page on Facebook for a daily dose of positive goodness: www.facebook.com/metothepowerofwe
     

    When I was in seventh grade, I received the greatest Christmas gift of all: My dad bought me and my three siblings each a new set of luggage. I loved my new three piece set from the moment I saw it…it was sturdy, red, and it was allmine! I loved it even more as I unzipped each section and pocket and discovered several fun gifts neatly wrapped and stuffed inside. Christmas kept giving, as I opened up the last pocket; inside were airline tickets to Mexico! We were taking a family vacation to Mazatlan, Mexico!!! Boy was I excited!
    As our Christmas break was coming to an end, we returned home to snowy Colorado. When we were taking our luggage out of the trunk of our car, I noticed something quite disturbing: My brand new large carry-on piece had “Black Nasty Goo” on it! My heart sank into my stomach. I felt immediately sad and angry, as I knew by looking at it, that the stain would remain forever there.
     
    In that instant, I had a choice to make: Either I could rant and rave and leave a mess in my wake…orI could put the situation into perspective. Even at that young age, hormones and all, I chose to put it into perspective. 

    As a child, I often theoretically put myself in outer space and “looked” back to Earth and my life. The situations we think are so important and devastating are really not so much! Taking yourself out of a situation and looking at it from a different perspective gives you clarity. It takes the emotion out of it. It allows you to cool your engines and take a fresh look at the situation at hand. When you “look” at the Earth and your life from outer space…you will realize they are both so small in the big scheme of things. The “Black Nasty Goo” is microscopic compared to the Earth and to my awesome life!

     

    We all encounter “Black Nasty Goo” from time to time. It comes in all different forms. What is your Goo? What is it that sets you off? What is it that gets your blood boiling? Whatever it is, if you really think about it, shifting your perspective will make it not seem so big anymore. Ask yourself, “Will this really matter in a week? In a month? In a year?” Most situations can be answered with a confident NO!
    Do you think I was upset that my luggage was ruined? Yes, I was! Is it healthy to express disappointment and hurt feelings, anger, and sadness. Yes, it is! What isn’t so healthy is to blow situations out of proportion and to make other people feel guilty and badly about something that really doesn’t affect much. How do you think my dad would have felt if I blew up over this stain, after he just took us on a fabulous vacation to Mexico? How would my siblings view my reaction? How would that reaction make me look?
    I love the book of Proverbs in the Bible. I glean so much wisdom and thought provoking passages that make me think outside the box and ultimately help me to be a better person. Here’s one that I just love:
    Proverbs 29:11
    A fool gives full vent to his anger,
    but a wise man keeps himself under control.

    This really says a lot. Seeking a healthier perspective gives us the power to remain in control of our words, thoughts, and emotions. Remember my example and this verse next time you encounter a “Black Nasty Goo”!



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